For years, I was consumed by my own life and hadn’t visited my mother. But one day, I needed to retrieve some documents from her house, so I flew to California, only to find her home abandoned and in ruins.
My mom had raised me on her own after my father left us. Despite the challenges, she worked tirelessly to provide for me and pay for my education. After high school, I decided to attend college on the other side of the country, in New York.
Though it was hard for her, she supported my decision and stayed behind in California. We stayed in touch over the phone during my first few years of college, though the calls grew less frequent as time went on.
Mom never made it to visit me in New York during my time in school. We kept in touch, but it wasn’t the same. Then, as graduation approached, I called her with exciting news.“Mom, I’m graduating in two weeks! Can you come?” I asked.She was ecstatic, proud beyond words. “Of course, I’ll be there!” she said, thrilled to share in my accomplishment.However, when Mom looked into flights, she was shocked at the high prices. Realizing she couldn’t afford both a round-trip ticket and a special gift, she picked up extra babysitting jobs to save up. After some time, she bought her ticket and headed to the store to buy me a graduation gift.After much deliberation, she picked out a watch. She thought it would be perfect for me, believing I’d soon land a good job. She proudly told the saleswoman about my graduation, and she left the store, excited to give me the gift.A few days later, she arrived in New York. I picked her up from the airport, and we headed straight to my graduation ceremony. She was so proud, snapping photos and cheering when I received my diploma.
After the ceremony, we embraced. “Thank you, Mom,” I said with a smile, feeling grateful for everything she had done for me.We went to a fancy restaurant to celebrate. Though she was nervous about the cost, I reassured her. “I’ve been working part-time, so tonight’s on me,” I said, trying to ease her worries.Tears welled up in her eyes as she thanked me, and then handed me the gift she had bought. I opened it to reveal the watch. “I hope you like it,” she said.“I love it, Mom. I’ll wear it every day,” I promised, touched by her thoughtfulness. “That way, I’ll always have with me.”We spent the evening enjoying the sights of New York, making memories and sharing stories.A few days later, Mom had to return to California. Before she left, she asked, “Will you come visit soon?”“I’ll try, Mom,” I said. “I have some job interviews coming up, but I promise I’ll call.”But as time went on, my calls to her became infrequent. My busy career on Wall Street and my relationship with my took up most of my time. Slowly, I stopped reaching out altogether.One day, when I finally decided to start my own business in New York, I needed some documents from home. I figured I’d fly back to California to get them, but when I arrived, I was shocked by what I saw.
The house was unrecognizable—broken fences, overgrown lawns, and the interior was a mess. I called Mom, but she didn’t answer, so I asked a neighbor what happened.
“Oh, Adam, it’s been a rough time,” Mr. Green said. “Remember the storm a few months ago? It caused a lot of damage. Your mom couldn’t afford the repairs, so she moved into a nursing home. She didn’t want to burden you.”
I was devastated. How could I have missed all of this?
After getting the address of the nursing home, I rushed there and found Mom, frail and in a wheelchair. “Mom!” I cried, my heart breaking as I approached her.
She looked up in disbelief. “Adam? What are you doing here?”
I knelt beside her, tears streaming down my face. “I’m so sorry, Mom. I should’ve been there for you. I’ve been so selfish.”
“Stop,” she said, gently lifting me up. “I’m just happy to see you.”
We hugged, both of us in tears. I promised her then, “I’m not going to let you be alone anymore. I’ll take care of you from now on.”
And this time, I kept my word.
I repaired our old home and brought Mom back from the nursing home. I decided to start my business in California, not New York, and asked my girlfriend to move in with us.
Now, we all live together, and every day, I’m reminded of the importance of cherishing those we love. I took my mother for granted for too long, and I’ll never make that mistake again.
